prior to being a christian, i hated it when 'church people' call you up to do some sort of follow up. there is this expectation for you to come regularly after the first time. to me, that was annoying.

however, now, i feel differently. i am so grateful, honored and thankful for their concern. at least, from MY friends from church. these people were just acquaintance a year ago but slowly and steadily, became friends who are truly concern for me.

i haven't been feeling good since i came back. to make matter worse, work has been busy. i just don't have the energy to go for bible study every friday. it is draining to have your mind run 15 hours on a friday, not to mention 10 hours for the days prior.

when i didn't show up, one of them will definitely call to see if i'm okay. i appreciate that and i don't find it annoying. BECAUSE, they don't have to. they did it because they thought about me and they WANT to.

remember, no one has the obligation to do anything for a person. it is nice when people think about you.

in this fudging busy society where we sometime don't even have the time to eat, how often do we actually thought of someone besides your boyfriend/girlfriend? and besides that, do we even have the energy to bother calling them up?