an important lesson learned

last friday, i watched this video called "The Five Love Languages".

1) words of affirmation
2) gifts
3) acts of service
4) quality time
5) physical touch

if you and your girlfriend or boyfriend are always quarreling, it may mean that you might not be speaking the same love language. for instance, your love language might be acts of service but her/his love language might be gifts. you are always doing things for her/him but they don't seem to be happy ---- the reason is that you are not speaking the other person's love language. now, try to find out what's your significant other's love lanuguage is and do your best in speaking him/her love language. trust me, your life would be so much easier.