what you wear, how you present yourself, whether you are a gal or guy make a diff.

on 2 occassions (all within a short period of time), when the bunch of us went for lunch, we got complimentary starter. the bunch of us refers to guys in shirt and tie and me, in business wear.

@ work, i'm well taken care of. that's all i can say... i'm not complaining but sometimes it puts me in an awkward position. i don't really like biases.